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 作者  owl2006 (owl)                                            看板  MenTalk
 標題  Re: [閒聊] 男人的結婚心態
 時間  Fri Jul  9 22:46:13 2010
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我已經結婚了,晉身人妻了
                                                                               
我老公當初不想早點結婚是因為經濟壓力
                                                                               
男生對外界的觀感還有面子問題,身為女性同胞的我們其實很難體會
                                                                               
我老公當初似乎想讓自己有點肩膀、跟可以照顧一個女生的責任感
                                                                               
他堅持要等到有經濟能力才結婚
                                                                               
說真的,一個女生對男友描繪出的未來生活藍圖,有時候讓他壓力很大
                                                                               
尤其是女生自己錢賺不多的時候,卻去畫一個要花很多錢的夢想時....
                                                                               
這種藍圖執行任務會落在誰身上??
                                                                               
你認為女生可以工作自主,重點是她賺的錢肯不肯拿出來當結婚基金?

(或是說一個月賺2萬多,但是可動用的存款少的可憐>"<)
                                                                               
光說聘金這種東西好了,你是女生你願意協調你父母不收嗎?
                                                                               
你會不會想著,是你要娶我耶~~這筆錢當然要由你出啊...當成父母養我的費用
                                                                               
你的家長會不會想著,我就是要收XX萬聘金!
                                                                               
為兒女著想的家長確實不收,但是這件事沒有談過以前,總還是要準備一下...
                                                                               
                                                                               
拿最簡單的蜜月來說,你肯不肯幫你老公出蜜月的錢?
                                                                               
目前我看到的蜜月費用不是男方全出就是各一半
                                                                               
我比較少看到女生願意全部買單的...
                                                                               
                                                                               
所以結婚簡單嗎?真的很累人又要花一大筆錢
                                                                               
如果你有百萬存款有房有車,又跟男生說結婚費用你全部買單,男生應該馬上就想娶你了

但是現實絕對不是這個樣子
                                                                               
因為你會希望男生表現出"疼愛你的方式"
                                                                               
求婚、鑽戒、婚紗不可或缺,可是樣樣都要錢的...
                                                                               
傳統婚姻儀式還有金飾等的花費...
                                                                               
然後結婚之後你一定會想買房子,理由是要有個家而且不想跟公婆住
                                                                               
對正常想照顧女友的男生來說,結婚產生的費用都是一種無形的壓力,
                                                                               
尤其當女生說的時候一付事不關己時,那種感覺更可怕= =
                                                                               
女生說得輕鬆時,男生是嚴肅面對的
                                                                               
他會開始計算自己要花多久時間累積那樣的財富,才可能成家
                                                                               
                                                                               
想想看你剛出社會毫無分文,跟女友結婚跟之後花費估算要準備百萬元以上
                                                                               
而這筆花費幾乎由你包辦時,把立場交換,你敢不敢跟對方結婚?

交換一下立場,轉換一下,你就知道男生為何不想結婚了....

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這種明理的女性,果然人生還是有希望的!!!!
可惜怎麼結婚了~XD

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